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Freedom Reflection

by Dr. Tonya Caylor
Jul 11, 2025

As we mark Independence Day, I find myself drawn to a quieter kind of patriotism. Instead of fireworks and fanfare, the steady work of building systems where physicians and learners can thrive.

It shows up in faculty who pause long enough to ask better questions.

In leaders willing to shift from solving to listening.

In teams that learn to think systemically, not just react.

Coaching has taught me that freedom isn’t always about independence. Sometimes it’s about the interdependence that allows us to show up fully, speak truthfully, and reconnect to what matters most.

I’ve seen what happens when faculty begin to take coaching-approaches in appropriate situations for connection and deeper, safe learning. And it gives me hope for what’s possible in medicine.

Here’s to the kind of freedom that fuels compassion, connection, and change.

Happy 4th!

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