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The Power of a Smile: Story and Reflection

by Dr. Tonya Caylor
Jun 12, 2025

During the half-day virtual faculty development workshop that I co-led this past week, one thing stood out to me: my co-presenter, Dr. Rae Wright, was always smiling and actively present. Her smile looked so genuine—like she was truly enjoying hearing me speak and appreciating how I was presenting (even if that wasn’t the case, it sure felt that way).

It struck me how powerful a simple smile can be. Rae’s steady, encouraging presence made me feel appreciated and supported, like I was doing a fantastic job. It was reassuring and energizing in a way that made me feel connected and confident, even over Zoom.

Thinking back, I realize that without Rae’s warm, consistent smile, I might have spent more time second-guessing myself, wondering if my words were landing or if I needed to be doing it differently. Instead, her smile created a sense of connection that made the experience feel meaningful and effective - and allowed me to present as my best self.

It was a beautiful reminder of how simple gestures can transform an experience—just like how a bit of warmth and light can coax new growth in the greenhouse.

Reflection: Who needs your smile this week?

What’s one small thing that brightens your day and leaves you feeling renewed?

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