It's been a while since I walked through some step-by-step methods of up-leveling our mindsets, so now seems like a great time for all of us to review this fundamental coaching strategy. Over the next few weeks, I will walk you through one method of optimization I use with those I coach mostly pulled from the framework set out by Brooke Castillo.
Mindset is a mental inclination, a way of thinking. It's essentially the lens through which you view things, a frame of mind. It's also one of the best places to focus effort as it can improve how you experience the world, make decisions, and take action to become the person you want to be. You can leverage your frame of mind to improve your journey -- even when circumstances are outside your control.
Mindsets can be divided into various categories, such as fixed vs. growth, scarcity vs. abundance, performative vs. mastery, and perfectionistic vs. iterative.
Many studies have been published about the importance and benefits of shifting mindsets and ways of thinking.
In an interesting small study, Dr. Alia Crum and Dr. Ellen Langer, Harvard psychologists, studied female room attendants in hotels. Some were informed that their housekeeping duties met and exceeded the criteria for an active, healthy lifestyle. They were also shown the number of calories burned by each task. The control group was not provided with this information. Both were given information about healthy lifestyles and happiness. Weeks later, the informed group perceived they were getting more exercise. They also significantly decreased weight, blood pressure, body fat, waist-to-hip ratio, and BMI compared to the control group.
There is a growing body of evidence of the power of our thinking. It's been shown that individuals who perceive that stress negatively affects their health and who experience high levels of stress have an increased risk of premature death compared to those who do not perceive it as harmful.
Let's think about our thoughts, as odd as they may sound - metacognition, if you will. Many writings suggest that we have anywhere from 40,000 to 60,000 thoughts daily though I've seen the range from 20,000-90,000. Most of those thoughts fly under the radar - below our level of consciousness. And interestingly, the ones that are we are conscious of default to truth in our minds. We rarely question their integrity.
To shift a mindset to one that will serve you better, you must become aware of what you are thinking, including what you say to yourself throughout the day.
Step 1 of optimizing your mindset then is to become more fully aware. I recommend utilizing the following process:
Take advantage of Step 1 this upcoming week. Just 3-5 minutes a day. I can't wait to hear what you learn about yourself. Tune in next week for Step 2 on learning to leverage your mindset.
Have a joy-filled week! Tonya
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Originally published July 2022, Updated Sept 2024
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