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Joy in Family Medicine – Stories & Reflections

Lessons, lightbulb moments, and honest reflections from life inside and outside medicine - served with a side of perspective.

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Suffering Story and Reflection
We were only a little over 2 hours into our hike, and my feet were killing me. It was my first backpacking trip through Crow Pass. We had knocked out 3 of the 23 miles and 2000 ft elevation gain after work Friday afternoon. We set up camp by Crystal Lake. I was so uncomfortable that I wondered if...
by Dr. Tonya Caylor — Jun 09, 2025 aging assumptions awareness compassion confidence endurance fitness growth humor innercritic insight mindset misattribution narrative perspective reflection reframing resilience self-doubt self-talk suffering
Giving Reflection
This week, in the spirit of giving - I invite you to consider who you might gift a unique gift to. The gift of extending positive intent is powerful. I once coached a resident who felt a particular attending "had it out for him." He reviewed the evidence. I asked if there was any other way to see...
by Dr. Tonya Caylor — Jun 08, 2025 awareness burnout coaching cognitive reframing compassion emotional intelligence empathy gratitude growth insight intent leadership medicine mindset perspective perspective shift positive intent reflection reframing relationships resilience suffering teaching wellness
Optional Suffering
This week I invite you to look for one area of optional suffering you may want to address. That is one in which you allow your mind to automatically go. I experienced it firsthand after a bike crash left me with broken ribs. (There's not even a cool story to go along with it - I just make a rash ...
by Dr. Tonya Caylor — Jun 08, 2025 acceptance awareness change clarity compassion discomfort distress emotion focus habits healing mindfulness perspective presence reflection regulation relief resilience suffering thoughts
Fall Focus Reflection
"What you focus on expands." (multiple attributions) I recalled this quote while watching my brilliant friend, Dr. Tricia James, explain how her modification of Stephen Covey's circles of influence and concern applies to us in medicine. The outer circle applies to all of those things that are ou...
Jun 03, 2025 acceptance attention awareness boundaries control emotions empowerment energy focus growth influence intention leadership medicine mindset perspective reframing regulation resilience suffering

Joy in Family Medicine – Stories & Reflections

Lessons, lightbulb moments, and honest reflections from life inside and outside medicine - served with a side of perspective.
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